ah just hours away from 梁静茹's concert! i can't wait lar! tomorrow will be a pretty eventful day i assume...but nonetheless, i've had a really enjoyable week. i would say this has been the best week this month so far!
anyway, on boxing day itself, i met up with my two fellow friends at vivocity. or rather, my fellow friend and her sister...haha but i am really thankful for having a friend like her. to be honest, it has been a rollercoaster ride.
well, it's not everyday where you get to compliment your friends right? actually you do, but some people find it harder. anyway, to me, she's someone who has been with me every step of my nj life...i'm not ashamed or embarrassed to say this, but she's someone whom i feel is really special in my heart, a precious friend who has been listening to me lament through sunny or rainy weathers, a person who has never wavered despite me letting her down, and someone who has made me who i am today. it has been 4 years aye? (: i remember the first day on the benches, i remember our conversations, i remember all that has happened. i hope i do still continue to be the friends we are throughout the upcoming years and decades.
i thank you again, my dear friend, grace.anyway, yep we had a mini celebration, rather, a pre birthday celebration. technically haha she was the first one who wished me happy birthday this year (a bit unfair right?), and then after a short teabreak at secret recipe (if you didn't know, there's this 6 bucks offer...look at the dec 10 entry) and then came a few presents! it was totally hilarious to be honest, and i totally wasn't expecting it, but i was pleasantly surprised (look at what they got me initially on my
facebook, other photos are up there as well)! haha i know you could tell by my facial expression that i wasn't really impressed (haha but i was thankful! really interesting) but i knew there was something behind this. o wells, after that i think you too were pleasantly surprised by your sis n' i right? (: a post birthday for you! later on, after you guys did some magic, i was, this time, really impressed (there's no photo of this, although it's a really nice artwork). thanks for the hard work and time spent ya? i really appreciate it, from the bottom of my heart! some shopping after that, phototaking by the roof (with a really funny photographer in green lar).
this "bugger", whom we asked to help us take a photo, apparently took my camera about 10 metres away from us and took a photo of us. after close inspection, the two sisters had to laugh, and upon closer inspection, apparently that guy took a photo of 3 of us, and another 3 people. so after the girls laughed, his friends laughed too, and i had to drag the two of them away from that guy in order to save him, and us, the embarrassment! it was hilarious though...should see the photo seriously...but i thank you, for such a candid moment and i apologise if we seemed rude to you haha. it was seriously funny, but i can crop the photo anytime, so no worries (:
well, after that came a round of looking for cheap food, which ended us in the supermarket looking for sushi. 10 bucks for 3 people, not too bad, pretty worth it! after that what happened was that we managed to grab a seat outside facing sentosa, cool sea breeze and everything. summarised : great sushi, night sky, lame games, stupid forfeit (can you believe
THEY...notice i emphasize the word "they" haha...made me shout I LOVE SENTOSA!?! in front of the people who were eating and happily enjoying the peace of the night scene until i came), meaningful chat, stupid faces, memorable.
anyway, all i want to say is, thank you
both for making it so enjoyable on that day. i really enjoyed it and i really liked the present too! it was the best pre-birthday celebration till date, and i really wished it was on the actual day...but thank you both nonetheless for making such an effort! another collection to my memories!
say, today was the class outing, which happened to be an all guys affair. a total of (hmmm lemme count...xianlun, jim, guanwen, sengee, vincent, kenny, shiwei)
8 people (if you think seven, count again, i didn't add me inside did i? haha...and to those who still think seven, *bish*, i know what you're thinking) turned up for this momentous event. after a 2 hour pool game at west coast recreation centre, we headed back to clementi for some "man-to-man" talk and then dispersed for dinner. sadly, i know what you guys have planned, and i do thank you for the effort. but ya, because i just can't celebrate my dinner together with my parents tomorrow, and tomorrow happens to be my parent's anniversary as well, i feel that i have to celebrate with them today. yep hope you understand!
had dinner with my parents, my beloved cousin yisin and his parents. pretty interesting dinner at baystreet 21 at IMM. pricewise, it's not bad. foodwise, not bad. atmosphere wise, so so. service, not too bad. however, i'm pretty strict on western restaurants. i think it's because of some etiquette classes i went for previously back in swiss (cottage) but western restaurants should observe a few things. (yes means they did, no means they didn't)
RULES OF THE TRADE
1. when the customers enter, greet them (yes)
2. the cutlery should be arranged before the customer steps in, and unnecessary utensils should be removed after the customer had ordered (no, it was only arranged after we ordered)
3. where available (which it should be available), the napkin should be placed on the customers lap unless he/she refuses (no availability)
4. menu should be given to every customer, and at the same time, inform the customers on what the restaurant specialises in, and the current offers to allow the customer to make an informed decision (offers not introduced, but menu given)
5. do not give the customer too much time, approximately 3 minutes should be enough, and politely ask them if they are ready to order (order was only taken upon request)
6. take each customers order
separately, and when serving, serve each customer what he requested (orders were taken together, where main courses were grouped together and drinks grouped together, and we were asked who ate what when the plate arrived)
7. provide a wine list, where possible (no list provided)
8. service with a smile (a must, yes and no)
9. background music (no...haha this one, for me, ambiance is the most important thing in a dinner, not the food)
10. provide common sauce(s) and condiment(s) (like ketchup, chili, Tabasco, salt, pepper) in appropriate containers, and have a variety of sauces on standby for weird requests (they put the chili and ketchup in packets, like what you'll get at fast food restaurants lar!)
11. desserts should be made, or cut, after the customers had ordered (apparently the desserts were on the serving tray before we even ordered, and were exposed to air. after we ordered, the exposed ones were carried to us...)
12. appropriate cutlery for different food (yes, cake fork for cakes, steak knife for steaks, and the rest are just fine)
13. bread should be served with butter unrequested and should be warm on contact (yes, the bread was toasted/warmed/baked beforehand and was great)
14. be observant to the customer's reaction, and ask them if they have any problems with the food (observance, yes, but asking, no)
15. plate should be cleared (without question! this is a western dining etiquette standard) when the utensils (usually fork and knife) are placed in a V shape (where fork and knife are facing away from the customer, and with fork and knife facing
DOWN...but more importantly is the V shape) (this one, no. we were asked. and this means that you are done with your meal, no matter whether the plate is cleared or not)
16. bill should be handed over to the most senior person, or the person who reaches fastest for his wallet (haha...a bit tricky...would say yes)
17. acknowledge the customer after he/she leaves (yes)
18. customer should be asked if they would like to serve their drinks before or after their meal (no)
19. soup should be served together with bread (yes)
20. main course should only be served
ONLY after soup has been cleared (no...by right this is to prevent the customer from arranging the soup somewhere else before the main course it put, and so that it is in sequence. it is a
NO GO to allow the customer to have his/her soup together with the main course)
i think i might have missed out some points there, but nonetheless a bit disappointing, considering i've been patronising this restaurant for some time but it has not improved. however, i think it's a redeeming factor that their food is good and their prices are competitive...you guys should go visit it sometime as well! had a great chat with all of them, and after that, due to the hike in taxi prices (if you haven't noticed, the meter jumps tat 20 cent intervals now! and somemore the surcharge now has been a 1 buck base and after 7pm, it's 25% surcharge onwards!) we had to take 188 hope, which i did enjoy, chatting with yisin. i love my family! (:
i feel really lucky actually, to be in between such great friends and a great family. to be actually in it is a blessing, and i wonder if i've been a really nice person in the previous life to deserve this. nonetheless, i thank
ALL of you for having this relationship with me, it has been a splendid 19 turning 20 years of life, and i've totally enjoyed every bit of this life, through smiles and tears. really. thank you!
okay here's a sidetrack...haha you know me well for this. for wine peeps, please do visit the wine fair at plaza singapura by carrefour...great offers, including sauternes! it happens every year at this period, so please don't miss it! and also, if any one of you is interested in joining me in a
sweet wine tasting at
bukit batok civil service club on the 25 Jan 08, a total of 4 great wines for $42 with traditional cny snacks, please do let me know! check out the hyperlink for what they're serving! i highly recommend it as sweet wines don't come cheap, and for wine lovers, you'll definitely enjoy it!
that being said, i shall go to sleep and await the concert. (: i know it has been a long post, but if you've read up to here, thank you! to jim, xl, sengee and shiwei, thanks for the presents! i'll open them later...haha got more feeling on the actual day!
*you know, i had this indescribable guilt and sadness after saying those things to you...i'm sorry!*